Wellness – A Way of Living

Turning Good Intentions into Action

When in the Pull of a Habit, it’s as if our Self-Awareness goes Temporarily Numb

Quitting Habits When They No Longer Serve You 

Quitting Habits

Habits are largely unconscious behaviour patterns.  Bringing conscious awareness to that which once was unconscious changes the experience altogether. 

To demonstrate this let’s choose the habit of smoking.  People trying to quit smoking know all the arguments and reasons; it is not that they haven’t heard them before.  Now let’s try a different approach to quitting this habit.

Instead of trying to quit, let’s try to begin to smoke with conscious awareness.  To do this we can make a ritual out of smoking – treat it as a special practice. 

What can you do with smoking to make it a ritualistic encounter?  Look to Native Americans – they brought ritualistic consciousness to their tobacco ceremonies.  They brought full awareness to the act.  Smoking was not a casual unconsious act but something that was based in ceremony and ritual.

Whatever you do, do it with awareness.  If your habit is smoking, instead of ‘sneaking’ a smoke, smoke in full awareness.  Smoke and feel the sensations totally, and experience this in complete awareness  Stay completely aware of the whole experience, the good and the bad.   Feel the rush of energy that comes from the nicotine and the smell of the tobacco on your skin.  What is the taste of the smoke in your mouth?  What is the sensation in your chest and lungs? 

As you bring full awareness to your smoking, you stay with it while it serves you, but there will come a time when it no longer serves you.  There will come a time when the benefits are outweighed by the detriments, and then the behaviour drops of its own accord.  You are not trying to quit; it simply drops because it is no longer serving you.

With overeating it is the same thing.  When you try to push the behaviour down, it becomes stronger. You find yourself gulping food as if you could sneak it past the one who is watching.  Eat in full awareness.  Bring your full awareness to every bite, feel the sensations of taste.  Slow down the experience of eating and experience the full taste of each bite.  What happens? Satiation comes easier.  Instead of sneaking this  past your awareness, bring your awareness to it and you will find that satisfaction comes sooner, fullness is felt, and the need for overeating subsides.

Take part in the experience you are drawn to, but do it with absolute awareness.  If it is something you have outgrown, you’ll have the experience, become aware of its lack of value, and that is that.

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Michelle Potvin H.T. Coun.,  

Wellness – A Way of Living

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2010/11/02 Posted by | Behaviours, Change, Lifestyle, Stress, Wellness | , , , , , , | Leave a comment

   

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